I would love some advice for upcoming Burns Supper, with dress code "smart casual".
1. Is it acceptable to wear my kilt? (I understand that strictly speaking women's never historically wore the kilt.)
2. I intend to wear my MacKenzie weathered kilt, a white feminine tuxedo top, dress boots, and a tasteful head piece of my Clan plant badge.) Does this sounds formal/not formal enough?
3. What should my date wear--as in tartan/no tartan (who has no claim to tartan)? I was thinking of buying him a Burns Check scarf that he could arrange somehow (he's creative that way), or do I allow him to wear a piece of my tartan?

Thanks to any who will advise me,
"A MacKenzie in Oregon"