Well put. Just because I had every rite to take offence to my co workers wife, doesnt mean that I would have and obviously didn't walk up to my co worker and had it out. I chose to allow her to make a discrace out of herself and kept my temper low. I'm not one and I'm sure most of us are not the type to cause a wide spread scene. I'm all for standing up for what one believes in, but if you can stay calm and let the other person make themselfs the fool. None can say anything bad about the kilt wearer now can they by comparison.