I have moved through marriage from generally English traditions to South American ones. Similar with some notable differences. Whereas we had xmas dinner on Xmas Day when I was a boy, now we gather on Xmas Eve which is traditionally done after mass in Latin American countries. Gifts are opened that night which is a bone of contention for me, and Xmas Day is left for us at home alone or perhaps with a guest who has nowhere to be.

My in-laws also gather for dinner on New Year's Eve and we socialise until midnight. There are a few drinks, but never many. I prefer that.

In my home, as natural observers we have added Solstice celebrations to our holiday rituals. After dinner there are several places to go in town to watch fires and lanterns glow, hear music and sing songs as well as reflect on the coming year. It's quite nice.