Evening all,

From what I've learned around here it is more than a bit disrespectful to wear something that distracts from the bride at a wedding. It is her day after all. Sounds good. I can go with that.

This is going to be my wife's bosses wedding. Amy works as the admin of her company's owner's daughter. She looks at Amy as a big sister. She is getting married this December and we are invited. No problem here.

Issue is I am getting through the work's grapevine (nepotism is us) that people are expecting me to be in a kilt. I always go to Amy's company functions in a kilt. They've seen quite a few pictures of me in the full kit (military balls, ect.) and it is a bit of a signature as far as they know.

I haven't been requested formally to wear the kilt but I don't want to disappoint.

Any recommendations?

Thanks,
Jim