I've skimmed the replies above and don't think I saw anyone take this particular tack. A full-on tank will look great for generations, but it will always look best right after a proper pressing. Wear the thing, get used to it (as others have said), become a confident kilt-wearer, make your wife the happiest woman in town, and then just before the wedding give your friend a good steam pressing following the instructions posted in the how-to forum. It, and you, will look splendid.