My only reply is that a person might seek an opinion, but one does not have to be rude in the way the opinion is given. It is not what we say; it is how we say it. And my mother will wash out my mouth with soap if I do not say it politely. She is 83yo, and I still have to be careful around her.
Have a good day, everyone.
Tom 
"Life may have its problems, but it is the best thing they have come up with so far." Neil Simon, Last of the Red Hot Lovers, Act 3. "Ob la di, Ob la da. Life goes on. Braaa. La la how the life goes on." Beatles
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