Hello, i recently got everything together for my first kilt, the sporran, kilt, pin &c all of my own choosing, but i do have some questions.

1: Where to put the pin? i understand it only goes through one of the aprons, not both, in the bottom right corner from the wearers perspective, where exactly in the corner? three up three to the left sword point down?

2: My kilt is ever so slightly too big, i don't blame the maker nor myself as i'm an odd shape, thin at the back, big at the front (yea i really should try to get fit) will the sporran chain help with this? i can get my fingers in at the top

3: How to prevent it from blowing open? i will be wearing something underneath but it would still be embarassing if it happened

4: What about the top half? what should i wear up there? i'll post a picture of my latest oufit at the bottom of the post and leave it to you to decide if it would benefit from a kilt

5: How do i safely negotiate lifts and escalators in a kilt without becoming a double amputee?

6: Best way of hanging up a kilt?

I'll appreciate your help, below are pictures (do know the kilt wearing pic is one that was far too big and was sent back, but my current one is the same make and tartan, it's the one in the pic of it on my coat stand)