I have been struggling with this issue lately as well. I have limited options with my family tartan's availability in the less expensive models. Unfortunately I don't feel right wearing another families tartan.

One of the most common tartan options is, obviously, the black watch. Here in the U.S. it seems to be available any time you see a tartan. My understanding is that the Black Watch has a strong connection to Aberfeldy, in Perthshire, as do the Menzies. That connection would make me feel comfortable wearing the tartan, but I wonder if I would be offending those who have served in the Black Watch.

Any thoughts?