Quote Originally Posted by ronstew
Frank, how would you like your relationship with your daughter-in-law to be? Picking a fight with her %#^$ for brains father is unlikely to acheive what you want.
You misread it. It's not his new in-law. It's his ex-wife's new man. Exactly the kind of guy who needs to be told to take a dump in his hat.

I agree with the others, though - find out how the kids feel. If they're ok with the kilt, wear it. If not, give them their day, their way.