This was all very well said. I can say that I haven't been kilt checked yet, although my girlfriend seemed to like harassing me in such ways. Of course, to me, this is most of the time acceptable (unless in public). I totally agree with the idea that it is not proper for a woman to try and "kilt check" a guy (unless you are in a scneario where a) you think it is ok, or b) it's wanted), as guys most certainly can't pantie check a woman without relatively severe consequences for such a "playful" action. Double standards... pretty simple, and a bit irritating if I may say so. Granted this is nothing more than agreeing with the above viewpoints (98% of the time anyhow, as there may always be circumstances where a guy won't mind)...but I figured that I would put my say in. I didn't join the forum for nothing!