There is very little I can add. You have been given some great advice by the membership. I've worn kilts full-time since August of 2005. I wear traditional wools as well as Utilikilts. My wife was apprehensive at first, but after being with me in public she came to realize that it was really a non-issue, and if anyone said anything at all is was complimentary.

For some wives, it just takes time to get things worked out. I think in time she will come to realize that the kilt is not a costume but a clothing option that can be worn as formally or as casually as you wish.

Darrell