At the end of the day, when all the window dressing is stripped away, we are what we say and do. Forget the possesions, the measure of a man or woman is their beliefs, principles, tenets or what-have-you, and how that person reacts when those beliefs are challenged. You made the right choice in living up to the commitment you made, how you explain your reasons will define who you are.

Best of luck with the performance.