There have been quite a few threads lately regarding the loss of a cherished family member. I'm hoping the rabble can help me understand some things. I've recently had to say goodbye to more loved ones than I would have liked to, but sadly I don't get to make the rules.

During my college years, back when my pants fit and I had all my hair( sarcasm is my way of dealing with difficult topics), I had a professor of English who made the statement that he greatly admired the Irish people. Well since my last name is Quinn and I'm reasonably proud of my Irish heritage, my ears perked up. He said that the reason he admired the Irish people is that they didn't mourn the death of a loved one, but rather they celebrated the ascension of a loved one into the next phase of life. And while doing so, they celebrated the earthly life of their loved one as well.

I personally embrace this point of view and use it to help me through hard times. Does anyone know if this is a true aspect of Irish culture? What is your point of view on death? We can't stop it, we might as well make the best of it. Or as my Father used to say. "Noone gets out this world alive."

My heart goes out to all who've lost a family member lately.
Thanks for listening
Rich