Yes Alan, you're right; the kilt is just a garment. There are far more important things in the life and the dress doesn't "make" a Man. Although it takes a Man to wear a kilt.

I really feel for you and hope you'll pull out of this situation the best possible way and you'll be even better person that you're now (which you are).

My thoughts are with all my "brothers" out there trying to find their own piece of peace and their piece of dignity.

Hold on and the Kilt be with you!