Well, actually, I daydreamed about my wedding day and drew pictures of what I wanted to wear for a long long time. I still am ;) Never got the wedding we wanted (or honeymoon). Hubby has always wanted to wear the kilt to get married. I was excited to hear that and still want him to. I'm hopefully going to sew that gown I never got. Someday we'll get to do a vow renewal. My husband and I have been together for almost 17 years (this July 3rd) and I can't even remember what year we made it official because we go by our original date (we pretty much knew we wanted to get married within a week or so of starting to date). We snuck off and went to a JoP just so I could finally be on his insurance. We didn't tell anyone and no one was invited because we wanted to save that for our REAL "day."

I've told hubby I would love it if he wore diced hose and a doublet with his kilt. If he prefers a PC, I won't fight him... I've even thought of some lovely touches to add for him into my "plans."

If he were to change his mind and want to wear a tux or something, I would be very disappointed but I'd let him. I'm just thankful that we usually agree on most things.

Some women do have very strong feelings about her big day, but I would hope too that they would listen to what their groom-to-be would like to do. It's so much more fun to plan together anyway!