This may be the wrong place to ask this, but I've had a nagging question on my mind ever since I attended a funeral this afternoon....

What is the etiquette for a wearing a kilt to such events as weddings, funerals, graduations, etc.? Is it customary to ask the host, bride or groom? Do you just "show up as is"?

Is there certain attire to wear to a funeral or wedding such as a jacket or tie along with the kilt?

I ask these questions because my wife asked if I would be wearing my kilt to the funeral. I opted not to so as not to create any bad situation or mis understanding with the family.

Just curious if there are ever any events where it is NOT ok to wear a kilt or some fashion there of....