To start with, I wear a kilt as my primary attire. So therefore I wear it as I would wear P^&*TED Attire. ( simply substitute the appropriate kilt for the P&^%Ts

1. Wedding = ) what ever the style of wedding dictates. ( Casual to formal)
( unless part of the wedding Party my "formal attire" would be a Crail Jacket & vest etc)

2. Funeral =
a. If a memorial then my attire is dictated by the setting ( a celebration of the person's life, to a somber "wake".
b. If a Full funeral, again my attire is dictated by the setting, But I would opt for a darker, subdued look. Relaxed look = Charcoal Grey or navy Tweed jacket & vest. Same colored hose & flashes, & my BW or my Black Douglas kilt.) More "formal look" = Charcoal Grey Crail jacket & vest, one of my more "somber" Black/Grey kilts, Charcoal or Black hose & Black flashes.

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