Welcome from a Whidbey Islander currently residing in the middle of nowhere.

It's been well put by others so I won't beat a dead horse, but will say that since the populace of this forum runs the gamut from staunch traditionalist to modern and contemporary kilters and those who cross many lines there is a lot of good info here and a lot of opinions on what is and isn't right, proper or acceptable. It's up to you to make up your own mind. Just remember that nothing is really written in stone so do what you like!