Lotions for skin care, yes. Hair, he11 yes! Pedicures are fine to keep the calluses under control. Much beyond that and, like other females here, I get a little "say what? you're spending more time/money on appearance than I am!" which really isn't hard to do LOL

No need to cover them up. A nice pair of kilt hose and garters/flashes is like many other items of clothing. . . drawing attention to the bits that are exposed, in a very positive way.

So flaunt 'em, fellas!