Brasilikilt,

I have to agree, a good job that you enjoy is more important than being able to wear the kilt at a poor job that wears on you. But then, you didn't say that you've been told you can't wear the kilt. Do you have work clothes that you change into when you get to work? You might start by wearing the kilt to and from work but change into work clothes once you get there. I can't wear my kilt at work but I find ways to keep bosses and co-workers aware of the viability of a kilt and my preferrence for them. I have catalogs on my desk, I have celtic music playing in my office, I have a utilikilt sticker on my truck. There are lots of constructive ways to lay the groundwork and hope that there will be increased acceptance.
Good luck, and congratulations on a knew job,

Jamie