Thank you Brooke and Peter,
While I hear this advice on the board very often, " don't wear your kilt you will stand out!" "or " maybe they are just being nice and telling you its ok to wear your kilt" ,or " Try to just blend in with the other guests" It does depend on the bride and groom and how well you know them, and what sort of people they are.

My friends that are getting married tonight are the most fun loving and jovial people i have ever met. If I were to not show up in my kilt, they would look at me and ask why didn't you wear it? I wish to look formal and reserved , yet stylish. I also enjoy wearing my kilt to events that are not Scottish in nature. To me, my kilts are not just for wearing to Highland Games, and Burns Dinners.

One more point and I will be done jacking my own thread. When i got married(at that time i didn't even own a kilt much less have ever worn one) one of my buddies, with out my knowledge or permission wore his kilt to my service. Was i shocked, naaa I knew him well and expected it. did he steal the show. Not on your life! besides he added to my pictures with his flair and panache'.

Now back on the subject of outfit coordination: