Great reminder Alan. And if I may expand on this a little...

When your SO says some rubbish as "You don't need to get me anything"... "Don't get me anything".... "I don't want anything"... You are being set up. Don't fall for this. Get SOMETHING. It doesn't have to be large, but a card AND...

Married 19 years, been together longer. I bought that story once... ONCE.

Do your SO right.