My Condolences. I agree that honoring the simple request will greatly help the lady with dealing with her loss. She's just lost her husband, even with family support it will be upifting for her to receive your support in even such a small thing. I see many widows suffering the loss of their spouse and then the loss of the regard of the husbands friends. Continue your friendship, show her that your regard for her did not die with her husband at this most difficult time, and trust that in a funeral full of tie-dyed celebrants you may even be understated.
Be well, Mo.
Last edited by Moski; 5th May 12 at 04:21 AM.
"The Highland dress is essentially a 'free' dress, -- that is to say, a man's taste and circumstances must alone be permitted to decide when and where and how he should wear it... I presume to dictate to no man what he shall eat or drink or wherewithal he shall be clothed." -- The Hon. Stuart Ruaidri Erskine, The Kilt & How to Wear It, 1901.
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