So for what it is worth, I believe that whatever you and your lass agree on has to be right for BOTH of you. You as a couple together make this commitment. I am married to the same beautiful Lass for going on 40 and 1 and I wouldn't change a thing. So...all I can offer is the following:
May you have,
Walls for the wind
And a roof for the rain,
And drinks bedside the fire
Laughter to cheer you
And those you love near you,
And all that your heart may desire

Slainte mhor agus a h-uile beannachd duibh
(Good health and every good blessing to you)

Seawolf