Graham,

I hear what you are saying. Andy the guy who came up to me is such a nice guy, but a bit off the wall. He really does not understand the masculinity of kilt wearing, but he does say it really looks masculine on me. I know it is hard for me to understand at times also, but I think what really got him was the one I was dancing with was his girlfriend. In retrospect I feel he was trying to regain his "territory", it comes back to the alpha male syndrome. We are still good friends.