Hi, Susieq62, and welcome to X Marks.
Which tartan, you ask? The answer is any of those you named, and (if you can afford them) all of them!
The surviving Cameron Highlanders might in fact be very grateful if you would wear their tartan, Cameron of Erracht, because in the amalgamated Royal Regiment of Scotland, only the pipers and drummers of the 1st Battalion still wear that tartan – members of the battalion wear Gordon tartan kilts or Mackenzie (Seaforth) trews.
The choice is yours, though.
As a woman, you have a wider range of choice for garments than men do.
Whereas we mere males can wear the tartan of our choice as a kilt (a few prefer trews) and perhaps additionally as a waistcoat (vest) or a plaid, you can wear it as a skirt (long or short), a dress, a sash, a shawl – there are choices galore.
Enjoy the world of tartan!
Regards,
Mike

See Cameron of Erracht here: http://www.tartanregister.gov.uk/tar...e.aspx?ref=495