I am really new to this but so far I have not had any problems sitting with my legs actually quite far apart in my AmeriKilt. It just falls between my legs and if not quickly enough, I help it by pushing it down.

As far as men not having any Idea how to sit in a "Skirt" well "we" might be new to this but men have been wearing them since God clothed Adam and Eve...

If your happy and you know it spread your pleats! (Modestly)

Oh My I must be getting to be a blabber mouth, I see with this post I have been promoted???