I'm sorry to hear the news, Frank. My condolences.


I haven't yet worn a kilt to a funeral yet either, but I don't think I'll have any qualms about it when I finally do. All the stories I've heard of people who were in a similar position were positive - mostly comments from other attendees expressing their appreciation for the respect shown for the person who passed by the wearing of the kilt.

I can definitely understand the reasoning behind not wearing it. Either way, wear whatever you wear with respect and I expect the occasion will pass without much of a fuss.