Regarding conflicts with vendors, I find it more like trench warfare, where you try something, then peek over to see if it did anything. They do the same, nobody moves. Attrition to surrender the dominant strategy. Or playing dead so the other side will go home.
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This sounds very familiar. I feel like I finally won, even though I wasn't totally satisfied. But, sometimes you have to cut your losses and take what you can get.