More confused than when I started here. Help dress me for my own wedding?

[Bluescelt]

First of all congratulations on your upcoming wedding. I think a Scottish themed wedding is an excellent idea. I was married almost 2 years ago.I'm a Donnachaidh and my wife is Buchanan so there was plenty of tartan at the ceremony. We still get friends telling us it was the best wedding they have ever been to. The issue with the fly plaid is a valid one according to tradition but when you see photos from Scotland the reality is like us they are all over the place on what's acceptable highland wear. I'm sure that is dictated by kilt hire shops. You can see examples on the Balgonie Castle facebook page. Some of the grooms are dressed very traditionally and some have fly plaids. In the end you will do what is right for you.