Thanks for all the well wishes,

Andrew, I will speak with the lad about being kilted, his surname is Byrne, I understand he can wear the Laois Irish County tartan
http://www.clan.com/tartan_detail.html?tartan=1145

I may offer him a kilt for the wedding.

Blu, I believe they want a simple wedding, out in the forest somewhere. Their church meets in a building that is not especially attractive, so that sounds good. It will be informal, and it will be hot, so a jacket may not even be needed.

yes, we must compare notes.