The love of my life

[Valencian Kilted]

Hey Axiel, it's good to see that u're so happy, and I hope as everybody that everything goes well. In my case I can say that I started to get out seriously for the first time with a girl when I was more or less ur age, 8 years ago. We were toghether for 8 years, and finally we broke last September. It is a sad end, I know, but the important part of my history is that I'LL NEVER REPENT of living what I did. The last 8 years have been the best ones all over my life, and I know that nothing will be the same after them.

Just as some romans said,... "tempus fugit",... and "carpe diem". Live ur life to the fullest, right now, right there.

¡Salud!

T O N O

[cessna152towser]

If a relationship feels right then take it a stage at a time and see how it develops. God has his divine plan for us all and it often differs from what we would have planned for ourselves when we were younger. I was in a passionate relationship for five years then just when she seemed to be pressing me to tie the knot she suddenly went off and married another man (who later became a woman) without even hinting she was about to do so. In the rebound, I hastily married a look alike whom I hardly knew and had a very unhappy and short lived marriage, but gained from it a loving daughter who is now grown up and keeps in contact with me. After a very depressing spell I realised that I was falling in love with Ann, a friend seven years my senior. We eventually tied the knot when I was 33 and she was 40. We had no family and she is now disabled following a stroke but we are happy together after more than twenty years of marriage, and I care for her and work part time from home. Ann encourages me to wear my kilts; indeed I never owned a kilt until after I married Ann.

[millar]

The love part is easy. The relationship is hard work. I envy you, this exciting time, and your two new kilts :smile:

[Shay]

Congrats, and good luck- I'm glad your preconcieved notions turned out to be wrong.

I agree with the other folks on not rushing things, but for a different reason- you don't want to scare her off! Some moms will err on the side of caution when it comes to people getting close to our kids... which I don't think is a terrible thing in the long run, but I felt you should know.

[cormacmacguardhe]

It could be the best thing that ever happened to you, still as someone wiser than I once said, "on day at a time". Hopefully, things will go well. It sounds like you are getting a ready made family.