I agree that the clan feud thing can be handled in a humorous way, I've had some good laughs ribbing folks & getting ribbed myself (usually over a dram, as mentioned). The Highland tradition of hospitality is a time honored and sacred institution, we should show our dignity and emulate the graces of our forefathers. BTW, the link on the government sett is a good one.

I hadn't really considered the effect that this type of behavior can have on first time gamers, but you're quite right. Who wants to witness that? Besides, it could have been worse. What if my friend had been a Campbell?