It's over with my "friend"

[Alan H]

Look the fight was NOT about the kilt, it was about her inability to control you.

It's extremely likely that Sir Robert is at least very close to the mark, if not spot-on. Theyr'e CLOTHES.... not a genetic remake of your DNA. For her to pitch a fit over you wearing a kilt, and not focusing on the guy she has...all his good points and the strength of character it takes to wear akilt,it shortsightedat best.

Cry in your beer tonight....maybe eventhroughthe weekend. Then, move on.

[Monkey@Arms]

Sorry to hear that Parpin. I wore a kilt to the theater last week. When my companions first saw me and said "are you wearing a kilt?" I just laughed and replied "You mean we're not attending the performance of Sing-it-yourself Brigadoon?" and that was the end of it.

Its better to be yourself than to be who your "friend" wants you to be.

Best regards,

Jake

[Kiltman]

Having been married for 36 years (to the same woman) I can tell you that you made the right choice. Sir Robert, is most likely correct in his assessment. Believe me a good woman is a partner not a commander. She can't change you to meet her needs and you can't change her to meet your needs social or otherwise.