Dread, there is a difference between judging and expressing a preference or dislike, which is my right.
I dislike country and western music, blues, and vegemite too, but others like it, so that's up to them.

Judging (at least in the Biblical sense) is condemning. That is not what I am doing, nor have the right to do.

Neither do my opinions have anything to do with loving or not loving the individual. I love folk regardless of what they wear. Heck, I even love people who wear TROUSERS!!!!!

now that's unconditional love