Ok take it from me a woman we as a sex are about as complicated as it can get and being pregnant doesnt make it any easier .Constant pains discomfort parts swelling a person inside you kicking you senseless and always feeling like you need to visit bathroom doesnt improve our attitude and well those are the good parts lol.See you talked it did good.Ask her what tartan she likes maybe if she picks it out shell be cool with it but ask on a day when shes had chocolate and isnt fussing about how parts are swelling and miserable lol.Just remember that pregnant does mean crazy sometimes.Cant imagine what I put my ex through .Ladies not bashing us either love being a woma and think that women are wonderful but we should be honest. lol