There's been so much discussion here lately from the newly kilted and their anxiety. Beginners -- listen to what Graham is saying! It is OK to be the only kilted person in the place! Think of yourself as an explorer, looking out at a grand vista never before seen by humans, or a biologist discovering a new form of life. In what other way can such a simple act, that of being confident enough to step out of the norm, bring enlightenment to so many. Think of the discussions you will precipitate....no doubt many that will cause people to call into question their own perceptions of what is "normal" and appropriate. Think of the folks who will decide that they have been hiding long enough and will now embark on their own journey of self-discovery. You will be aware of only about 1% of the people that experience personal revelations like these because most people, when confronted with a situation that calls their own assumptions into question, will remain silent. No matter where you go, the number of people who receive "benefits" from your action will vastly outnumber the numpties who think or blurt out derisions and disapproval. If the opinions of others matter to you at all (we are social animals, and this is a normal, natural feeling), these facts should provide you with the confidence you need to get over your apprehension.


And don't forget that your own pesonal pleasure, comfort, and satisfaction are paramount, regardless of the ultimate reasons that you don the kilt.