My husband works equally long shifts. He also has a very physically demanding job. He does tires....semi-truck, dump truck, tractor and personal vehicle tires. Most of the tires he deals with on a daily basis weight more than I do.

He helps me with the laundry and yard work, he cleans up after himself- most of the time, but the kitchen is another planet to him. The only complaint I have is that he doesn't put his dirty clothes in the hamper benind the door. He drops them about 6 inches to the left. Maybe I should move the hamper...lol.