Thank you for all the well-thought comments.

Just to clarify for scottography: I have never worn it in her presence. She has never seen me in it. That makes her incredulity that much more dumbfounding.

Also to clarify: I am not gay. I have never worn women's clothing. I have no desire to. I am not looking for attention. I came to the kilt from a love of history, my ancestry, and all things British. I know you guys don't need to hear this, but to outsiders what we wear can come across as really strange. Some people are born without imaginations. And it can be so infuriating that people get so upset when you won't just follow the herd. I get p*ssed just thinking about it!