What to (or not to) wear with your Kilt

[auld argonian]

Some of these rental outfits do rental by mail order. They ship it out, you use it, you ship it back. Maybe look into that...

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[Clockwork John]

What about wearing a waistcoat? this would put some "visual distance" between the tartan tie and the kilt...

[Gàidhlig]

What about wearing a waistcoat? this would put some "visual distance" between the tartan tie and the kilt...

Aye, it probably would but for my lack of a waistcoat.

[pipesndrumsnun]

Aye, it probably would but for my lack of a waistcoat.

Get thee to thy local Salvation Army or Goodwill shop...lots of great finds, and, usually, lots of nice vests!!

[Clockwork John]

Aye, it probably would but for my lack of a waistcoat.

So get one! You should check thrift shops and see if you can find one that would work, or one that you could modify or take to a tailor. I've been looking for one for months... no luck yet.

[Ian.MacAllan]

Often the bride's mother is the recognized arbiter of appropriate attire and behavior at a wedding, if she's qualified and willing. I understand that this is a reception, not the wedding, but I think it would be gracious to consult her unless you have persuasive evidence of her lacking judgement. Your parents, because of their familiarity with Scots' attire, your circumstances, and the personalities of the bride's mother and some of the other guests, probably can offer good advice.

I think the key to fitting in at most social affairs is doing what is expected. The real challenge is in figuring out in advance what will be expected, and for that knowing the players is often more helpful than knowing the rules.

Best wishes for a very good time at the reception.

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