well im only 20 and the oldest child so ive only been forced to suffer through one wedding and it was my brothers it was a hurried affair as he is deployed in afghanistan i did not go kilted for two reasons 1 ive just lost more weight and dont have one that fits and 2 i was among the groomsmen and we were told what to wear black suits red tie ... i didnt want to and oddly enough im the only one that showed up with the right thing on