Originally Posted by
rollerboy_1979
In Chicago, at Catholic wedding masses, we never called the groomsmen "ushers", but I think we're splitting hairs here. To clarify, I have not been asked to "stand up" with the groom in a tux, I'm simply being asked to escort famiy members to their pews in church, along with one other person.
I have seen a lot of times where it is two different positions. The groomsmen hang out with the groom, you know to either make sure he goes through with it or to help him make a hasty escape.
The ushers are another set of men or boys, often cousins or nephews, who escort people to their seats.
We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. - Japanese Proverb
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