Freedom Kilts....R-Kilts....Flamingo Kilts.

Contemporary kilts, good people, good products, and customizeable up the wazoo.

If you're up for it, go to the DIY forum and make yourself (or get your wife to make) an X-Kilt and do it (or them0 up exactly the way you want them..

If you have to go "off the rack", then Amerikilts are a good option. Alpha Kilts advertises here, though I've never actually seen one. I bet you can get one without the cargo pockets.

For cotton kilt hose I go to Hamilton Dry Goods. They have a good website, which only has about 2/3rds of what they carry. HDG sells on ebay, and I've actually bought most of my stuff from them, off their ebay store. There's also the Sock Dreams website, which mostly caters to the ladies, but they do carry some manly-man schtuff.