Non-kilted wedding options?

[timseh]

Kilt to the reception would be a wonderful compromise in my opinion. But as others have said, it's her day. Yes there are arguments both ways, but if it were me, I wouldn't push the issue (especially if she's more or less OK with you wearing it under other circumstances).

Could lead to some interesting fun when it comes to the tossing of the garter at the reception if you're kilted... why not 'turn things around' a bit if you catch my drift...

[Jock Scot]

You may not like what I have to say here and I am sorry.There seems to be a dearth of compromise here and if it were me, I would seriously reconsider my position. If you are not able to compromise for the wedding it really does not bode well for your future together.

[Snowbear]

The closest non-tartan option I can think of is getting a clan fly plaid brooche. It is'nt much, but it is history. Besides; a brooche looks really good on a suit/tuxido as well.