*sigh* Allow me a moment to daydream about what my wedding would have looked like if my husband were wearing a kilt...

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ok, I'm back. Anyway, My husband and the groomsmen wore Ti leaf leis because he grew up in Hawaii, and my wedding dress was a colonial inspired corset with a hoop skirt--not exactly what you'd call a perfect match-- but it turned out fabulous. And can I just say this business of making the wedding day out to be the day to end all days in perfection is just ridiculous. It should just be a fun day where you celebrate your love because once it's over, real life sets in and no one cares what you wore or did afterwords. Trust me, I can't bribe people to look at my wedding pics!

And I can only speak for myself, but I NEVER thought of my wedding until I got engaged, I think that girls dreaming of their weddings since age 3 might be an idea perpetuated mainly by hollywood... but I really don't know for sure.