Quote Originally Posted by Ted Crocker View Post
I remember my parents buying a "family crest" from a mail order bucket shop when I was a little kid: late seventies probably.
I have a half-brother whose other half decided that was an acceptable way to begin and end their genealogical studies. They have a "coat of arms" on the wall and a "family history" that is probably false and from the wrong country. I offered to help him get started doing some serious research if/when he wants to take that step.

Back to the original poster's question:

If you'd like to wear the kilt, pick a universal tartan you like (or a contemporary kilt style) and enjoy wearing it regardless of which Parks you are descended from. You don't have to know exactly where you're from to begin enjoying yourself!

Genealogy (at least for me) has been much the same way. It's an entertaining pursuit, but it doesn't have to define who you are or limit what you can do. If you enjoy history and the sound of pipes and drums, like the kilt and get along well with a particular bunch of folks, most of them won't object to you joining in the fun.

The ones that do object can kindly and quietly go polish their Kilt Police badges in a dark corner.