Can you provide pics of men wearing a dancer's dress tartan in a non-dance setting? I'm always eager to have my misconceptions shattered...
Why should I? You obviously haven't bothered to check out the link of HRH Prince Charles wearing a dress tartan kindly provided by another earlier in this thread, so I'd just be wasting my time.

I don't know of any mills that provide these tartans in heavyweight fabric designed to be made into mens' kilts
I hope you're not saying that a dancer's kilt is not a man's kilt. You do realize that highland dancing is a man's dance? You do know that a female dancer wears a man's kilt? Lightweight or heavyweight, it's a man's kilt. Just like some gentlemen on this forum wear lightweight kilts to stay cooler in a warmer climate, dancers use lightweight kilts to stay lighter on their feet.