Quote Originally Posted by Arnot View Post
I think that some folks worry too much about this. I have been to three weddings and one funeral fairly recently. I did not steal the show from any of them. Personally, I think one would have to make a real spectacle of himself for that to happen. If that were the case, one's attire would not matter.
It depends on the crowd. If people in your area are used to seeing kilts at weddings, it may not steal the show. But at the very few weddings I've been to in rural Texas where I live, a kilt would not only steal the show. It would be the talk of the town.

So I'd say there's no possible way to have a general rule on any event. It will depend on the host(s), the guests, the location, the conventions for that particular ceremony, etc. A kilt a Jewish wedding might go over much differently, for example, than a kilt at a Catholic wedding. Even if they're held at the same location on consecutive nights.