groom to be needing advice

**Philip S. Tibbetts** · 28th January 10, 02:50 AM

I'm not a massive fan of brogues which I find a bit too fussy for my personal tastes so I wear these at formal occasions

I just find them to be clean, smart and still very in keeping with the rest of my outfit (Black Country tartan, Sheriffmuir jacket, white sporran with plain cantle).

Best thing is to probably try a few different styles and combinations of outfit to find something that works. Hope that helps and good luck!

**Tobus** · 28th January 10, 06:37 AM

Originally Posted by St. Amish

That was just a stock photo I found on the net. I put it up because it sounded like he maybe just didn't like those ridiculous laces all over his calves.

May I ask where you found that picture of the buckle brogues? A really nice pair of buckle brogues is on my wish list but I haven't seen any that I like as much as those you posted. Most of 'em are too slick and shiny for me. Those look like they'd work for all kinds of different looks.

As for buckle brogues being too formal, I'm not sure when they became relegated only to über-formal affairs. They used to be part of the everyday Highland gentleman's attire, as shown below. I would sure like to see them make a comeback in popularity, along with diced/argyll hose for normal affairs. But that's just me; I love that look.

**Lyle1** · 28th January 10, 07:44 AM

I think boots can look good with a kilt, but there are boots, and then there are boots!

I am assuming that your outfit will be as dressy or as casual as what the bride wears. Your boots should not distract from your outfit, or the bride's outfit. Wearing tennis shoes with a tux was considered cute for a while in Hollywood, but it never really looked good. Pick boots that match the look you and the bride are going for.

**Schiehallion** · 28th January 10, 08:08 AM

I think it depends on what else you are wearing with your kilt.

If you are formal... go for a formal shoe either Ghillie Brogues or classic black brogues.
DMs too can look ok and are a good general shoe to wear with anything.
Ig you are more casual go for a boot!

Alot depends on the bridal wear.
I have seen some strange combinations of formal brides in white and lace with full trains and the groom in a simple jacket... chalk and cheese!

**Arlen** · 28th January 10, 08:44 AM

There's been some really good advice on here so far so I won't reiterate too much.

Ghillie brogues (The ones that lace around your legs) are a relatively modern thing that rental shops boosted a lot. Most of us on here aren't fans.

Regular brogues (Oxfords, wingtips etc) we do like and those always look good at a wedding so long as they are nicely polished.
Likewise smart buckle shoes of any kind. (I wore the ones similar to these to my wedding.)

There is also the option of old fashioned boots. These are all smart and with a good polish would be O.K at almost any wedding.

Good luck.

**ozarkjacobite** · 28th January 10, 09:24 AM

A good pair of black, low quarter, dress shoes, either wingtip or oxford would be a good bet I think. This would also lower the chances of "wedding party fashion clashes". LOL. Trust me, I've seen it.

**KiltedChief** · 28th January 10, 09:25 AM

These are the boots I wear with my kilt. They hold a mirror like shine. http://apps.hhbrown.com/HHBImages/WE.../Cove/1525.jpg

**Frank McGrath** · 28th January 10, 09:49 AM

I guess i'm just looking for some advice
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Don't do it! Run, far and fast! You still have time. !!!!!!!!

Just kidding. Wear a nice pair of dress shoes, but don't let anyone near them until after the wedding. Some clown may write something on the soles.

Best of Luck to you and your intended. Joan and I celebrate 25 years this june. And I still have the shoes I got married in.