If clan Gordon is anything like my fair lass's clan Scott, the clan people should have good suggestions for you. If they don't, she'd be very glad to help. She has Gordon ancestry also.

Otherwise, go to school off the other tents at your first games. Anita now says her first one was pathetic, but she learned quick and it really wasn't that bad. Most of the people doing it for awhile will tell you they progressed and changed and added and evolved for several years.